Have you ever wanted to give up?

All the problems I've had today have just made me want to give up photography and I'm usually not a throw-in-the-towel type of gal. I have wasted an entire package of photo paper trying to print out this last shoot and, well, I give up. It's not worth the stress, it's not worth damaging my health. I'm ready to give this woman her money back and close up shop.
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I would imagine we've all been there.  But think about the options.  What would you be doing if you weren't a photographer?  Is that a better or worse career for you? 
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I would imagine we've all been there.  But think about the options.  What would you be doing if you weren't a photographer?  Is that a better or worse career for you? 

I'm a nuclear medicine technologist by trade. For the past 20 years, I have injected people with radioactive materials for the diagnosis of cancer, a rather depressing job. Photography is/was supposed to get me away from that, get me to a career where I don't see dying people every day. But I'm beginning to think that my life will continue to be filled with a job where I have to put on a brave face all day long and then go home and cry in my pillow, a job I never wanted in the first place (because my parents said they would pay for my college as long as I didn't study art).
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That's sort of the point, isn't it?  You know what you'll be doing if you don't get your photography business to a point where it's paying the bills.  Would you rather be injecting nuclear dyes into patients with cancer or photographing weddings and babies?

Every job is going to have downsides.  Photography requires a lot of time sitting in front of a computer editing sessions.  Unfortunately we sometimes focus on the negatives rather than the positives.  Try and focus on the happiness that you'll bring to your clients when they see the images instead of how your back feels sitting at the computer for 8 hours. 

And I really don't mean to discount what you do now.  It's important that there are people working in the medical field, and I have a lot of respect for those that can do it.  I thought of going to school to get licensed as a paramedic, but the chances of seeing death on a fairly regular basis kept me from following through, although I did get up to EMT-I. 
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I'm usually a very positive person, but this has really flattened my confidence. My parents never thought my art was any good, never encouraged me, and my ex-husband was the same. My new husband has been very supportive, but sometimes I fall backwards and get myself all mired in doubt. I don't mind the computer work with photography, in fact I enjoy it. Smiley <--look, a smile! I just went out and took a walk, had a falcon swoop right in front of my face, and renewed some of my energy. But I'm still confused about the direction I should take.
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Oh Marian, We have all been there.  It was just a couple weeks ago that I posted the same sort of thing here.  We all get frustrated and discouraged.  I won't hijack your thread and go into all my problems, but just know that I struggle off and on.  Just remember that if this business were easy everyone would do it and then the job wouldn't be valued at all. 
I want to tell you to stick with it, to work past the days of frustration you will feel, but it's your choice to do so.  If you love it and have a passion for it then it is worth it.  It is hard to make a living being self employed.  Being a photographer has no set track to take, there isn't vacation pay and benefits that a 9 to 5 can provide.  You have to make your business yourself, you have to do all the work.  But the exciting thing about that is that the rewards are bigger the harder you work.  I can't say that about any other job I have had.  My husband and I still have regular jobs.  He does technical computer software freight auditing boring crap and I am a wedding and event coordinator for a company which is NOT as glamorous as it sounds.  I sit at a computer all day bored and get the occasional call from an extremely grumpy mother of the bride or some assistant to someone important who is mad that I ruined their wrap party at Sundance because they were short one wine glass and Mr. VIP had to drink Cristal out of a paper cup.  Those things are hardly rewarding.  The point is that our photography doesn't sustain our family yet.  It doesn't happen overnight.
Take a break from your printer problems today and do something good for yourself.  I don't condone procrastinating but it sounds like you need to work on your problems when you aren't so emotional.  Remember, making big life decisions is not a good idea when you are upset.
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Thanks, Susie and Ryan. Smiley I think I would have been able to handle this better had I not had some major pain going on at the same time. Tongue It's truly amazing how exhausting pain can be. I have a destructive disease which destroys the ends of the bones and today my hip is really bothering me! Someday I'll probably have to have it replaced. Hey, then I can have fun at airports with their detectors! Grin My poor husband goes and watches golf when I'm like this, ha ha. Oh, and Susie...you can serve me Cristal out of a paper cup anyday! Grin
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Oh, and Susie...you can serve me Cristal out of a paper cup anyday! Grin

Ha ha, I don't drink, but I might make an exception for something that expensive, paper cup or not. 
I am sorry about the pain thing.  It's frustrating when you can't control things like that.
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This thread slipped by unnoticed by me somehow.
Must have been some reason for that but anyhoo! So sorry you were struggling there for a bit M.
Totally! I want to quit before Ive even started. I have so much fear of failure it dibilitates me before I have even picked up my stinking camera.
Youre ahead of me already.
I appreciate you! Im glad youre here.
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Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.

Oscar Wilde

I had that thought this morning.  I just get so busy and I think back to when I just had a normal job and didn't try and balance everything.  I have two photoshoots back to back on Saturday, and wedding season is coming up and last year I was so busy.  And yet, I am still not doing the amount of business others do or that I need to do.   AHHHH!!!
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I have almost completely given up on my photography.  Everyone here has helped me a lot.  I just think I am not catching on to some of the basics.  I tried to do too much too soon, and have gotten overwhelmed.  I also can't get my camera to take a decent picture to save my life. 

Marian,

I also have been dealing with chronic pain since I was 26 (I am 28 now).  I still have no diagnosis, but I think my doctors are getting closer.  They are thinking fibromyalgia or Degenerative bone disease.  I have lost everything and have even spent 3 months completely homeless last summer.  I have 2 kids to take care of.  I am working for the first time in 2 years.  It is very part time however.  I am in more pain now than I have been since I was injured 2 years ago.  I just want you to know that you are not alone in your frustration.  I have been where you are now.  It is unbelieveable how the pain takes over your life.  Keep your chin up.

take care

~Andrea~
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