Are we too connected?

Got a business card from someone yesterday and something struck me as odd.  Sure, it had the normal phone number, address, title, logo, and all that.  But it was the first business card I've come across with a Twitter address on it.  Admittedly I don't get a lot of business cards handed to me in my day job.  But he had Twitter URL, a blog URL, email, two phone numbers, and address.  And on the back there were 6 URLs to projects that he was involved in within his company (big, giant company).

Got me thinking.  Sure, it's nice to stay in contact with people that you want to stay in contact with.  But are we too connected?  Right now I'm typing on a web forum, have Canary open to my Twitter feed, Thunderbird open with one of my email addresses, and am IMing with Yahoo.  And just in case, my cell phone is sitting next to my computer on the counter.

And now I'm at a point where I feel disconnected if I'm not around email or IM.  I've got access to email, IM, and Twitter on my iPhone so I can always check and see if there's anything new.  Rarely is there though.  And never something that couldn't wait a couple hours until I got home or to work. 
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For a while, I thought I was too connected. Then I drove from NY to Las Vegas all by myself without even a cell phone and I discovered that I didn't miss it as much as I thought I did. Now, when I start feeling overwhelmed by too much technology, I go for a long walk in the woods and just listen to the sounds of nature. I had a cell phone for a while, but gave it up. I have made maybe 3 twitter posts and my myspace account is covered in digital dust. Yes, I work hard on my digital presence, but my digital presence isn't who I am.
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What do you mean by "too connected"? That implies something negative.
Are you missing out on interacting with your family because of Twitter or chatting online or whatever? Are you being unproductive at work because you are on a forum all day?
Ryan, I am asking these questions hypothetically, not to you per se.
If being "conncected" is straining your life then yes, it's a problem. If not then it's just different ways to interact with clients or friends and family.
My 70 year old mother is on Facebook and it brings her a lot of joy. Now, she gets out and is VERY active with her family and church. She is a "work service missionary" where she does transcribing and archiving stuff for the church museum and she teaches people to quilt, etc etc etc. BUT she loves Facebook for the ability it provides to interact with her sisters in different states and to share pictures of her grandchild with friends from the past. I should note that while she doesn't use Twitter, she has a cell phone, reads blogs, banks online and sends me emails often even though I live 15 minutes away.
I think it's good for her socially. While I don't do the social thing as much, I operate my business online.
So... I guess I am saying if used properly it's amazing and I am so glad I live now. However, I do sometimes waste away my time doing silly online things.

Sorry for the long post Smiley
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Susie, bless your mother! My mom still uses a manual typewriter.
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I don't think of it necessarily as a negative.  Although I do think online can become addictive, in which case I suppose the addiction is the problem, not what's addicted to if that makes sense.  It be nice if someone could figure out a good way to keep it all in the same place though.  

And bringing up your mother is a well timed point.  My wife's 80-something year old grandmother Facebook friended me last week.  At first it struck me as odd, mostly because I just couldn't picture her even using a computer.  But it does give her a chance to socialize with others that she wouldn't otherwise get a chance.

The hard part for me is separating social from professional.  It's difficult for me to flip a switch and be in business mode when I'm IMing with a ProofBuddy client and go to social mode when I'm chatting with a friend.  
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I don't do social. I really feel like this forum is the only place I socialize online, and it's business related, lol.
I don't have Facebook, I moved around a lot as a child and don't have any close friends from the school years of my life, and I don't particularly want to socialize with my cousins, we, um, have different lifestyles and most are quite a bit younger than me. I do use IM and text messaging a lot, but only with my husband while we are both at work.
I am not anti-social, I just don't have friends outside of work, family and church.
Sometimes I wish I had a friend I could go shopping with or go see a chick flick with... but then I come to my senses and realize I would really rather be home editing pictures or spending time with my husband. It seems sad, but it's not, I don't have time for frivolous stuff.

ETA: I should mention I live with my little sister, she nannies for us and attends a university in the evenings and my mom and dad live close, we have Sunday dinner together often and they take us all out for birthday dinners, we interact a lot. I am lucky, and I like my family, especially my husband. better than any friend I have ever had. My husband and I play video games together, we go to movies and sporting events, he is an awesome best friend.
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